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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
4 points

Many people secretly enjoy wallowing in self pity. It's easier to be angry at the world and pretend to be a victim than to take responsibility for your own happiness. If it wasn't stuttering, these s...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
12 points

Your delusions are getting the better of you. No one here is saying having a stutter makes you a loser or you will be a loser forever. We are just saying that stuttering is not a gift and we are no...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
3 points

Yes, I’ve noticed the same thing. Everything seems much more difficult even ordering a coffee or picking up some food. I just end up in a vicious circle because the less I talk the more I stutter and ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
7 points

I read in Self Therapy for the Stutterer that it gets worse if not actively worked on. Also the stakes are higher in adulthood. Stuttering leads to a bunch of social issues which in adulthood are like...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
2 points

I was once watching documentary, a girl got kidnapped and made slave by a man forore than 20 years, kidnapper rape her and did awful things to her, after police caught him and free the girl, girl stil...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
18 points

I would say the levels of cope and delusion in this sub are funny, but the more I think about its actually sad seeing posts like this. The fact people here have to pretend to enjoy the fact they cant...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
2 points

story of every stutterer, its like just thrown to this world and you have to survive and every time you open your mouth hell begins...

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Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
3 points

Here's some advice from someone who has probably two decades of experience on you: You can't run away from life. Sooner or later it all catches up on you anyway. Go into all those feared situations wi...

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Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2026
4 points

I don't know how he will react if you say it but one of the things that made me accept my stutter was to figure out the things I can do and what I can't. Being born with this disorder was beyond my ...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
5 points

When I was forced to read a paragraph in school. I stuttered on every word. I didn’t/couldn’t finish, teacher asked someone else to read. I was seated against the wall, and looked toward it and just c...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2026
3 points

i’ve really just given up at this point. filed for my disability. if people weren’t so awful maybe i could work ...

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Helplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2026
17 points

In my last job we and my coworkers were getting called by a woman offering a medical plan. I went and accepted the offer, she told me to go and tell another coworker to go to her because she needed to...

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postr/StutterMar 6, 2026
8 points

Making phone calls

Making phone calls Does anyone have any advice for making phone calls? I experience tremendous anxiety before I have to make a call or when the phone rings. When I feel this way, I simply cannot say m...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 6, 2026
53 points

Why haven’t scientists found a solution for stuttering yet?

Why haven’t scientists found a solution for stuttering yet? I’m going through a really difficult phase in my life right now 😔 ...

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postr/StutterMar 5, 2026
10 points

I am looking for honest advices.

I am looking for honest advices. Personally, I don't know what to do. I applied to the army several times but they rejected me even though they gave me many chances. Stuttering had taken over my entir...

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Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
4 points

> Like finding someone to date and marry isn't that hard, just like finding a job or career It's not easy for everyone to find a job. Jobs have formal applications where what matters is essentially w...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
-8 points

My advice is just accept it. Not everyone is meant to date or have sex. Doesn't mean you can't have a meaningful, productive and enjoyable life....

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Ive had it in mind about 2 years ago. I wasn’t happy about my stutter, but I also wasn’t happy about myself. I have a stutter, I’m short, balding, skinny. I hated a lot of things about how I was. I ha...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
2 points

I just wanted to comment the same issue Recently I am too depressed due to having no relationship at all as a 27M stutterer. In all my youth I have been too much negative to myself, always downgrading...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2026
15 points

Ive never had any real help or advice for my sutter and I'm looking for it now

Ive never had any real help or advice for my sutter and I'm looking for it now I am 20F and I've suttered since the 6th grade. It literally just showed up over night. One week I started stuttering pre...

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