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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
5 points

With kids, especially at that age, it is going to happen. I remember at his age, (Im 54) and the teasing just happens. Not sure what the right answer is, but I always stood up for myself. I got in ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
9 points

My son once took out his friends for dinner and one of the guys said oh you can’t even talk so don’t try. Yeah so my son ignored him. Tell your son it’ll happen again and he needs to ignore those bull...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

I get what you’re saying about the whole eye comparison, but that’s completely different because as a kid I used to not look at it weird but when you get laughed at by multiple teachers throughout sch...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Thank you, my only real issue is that he is distressed when others don't understand and he can't get the word out. He is learning strategies and we are very supportive at home. He is also very soft sp...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
6 points

You have the wrong mindset Stuttering “problem”- It’s not a problem, it’s not a blessing. It’s just something you have How to “overcome” stuttering- You can’t overcome it, at least in the typical se...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

I had a stutter that developed around the same age and is still with me today in my late twenties. I’m not a professional, so take my advice with a grain of salt. But I have a few thoughts as someone ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
3 points

You need to report this horrible teacher to administrative staff. This is 100% unacceptable behaviour in teaching staff. The teacher is obviously ignorant of speech impediments. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
6 points

I’m sorry man. My shitty advice would be to say what you want/need to say and stutter your ass off. Make people wait and tell them to not interrupt you and say you are speaking. Easier said than done,...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
2 points

Well, I guess l've always had a good (albeit, of course, complex) attitude about it. It's always been and always will be difficult, but I think about how the difficulties other people face (mental imp...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
1 points

I guess I’ve always had a good attitude about it. It’s always been and always will be difficult, but I think about how the difficulties other people face (mental impairments, physical limitations like...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
6 points

I always tell the meeting organiser I have a stutter beforehand and ask to be left out of public speaking like ice breakers and so on. They're always happy to accommodate. Easy fix. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2026
1 points

If they judge you over that, it’s probably not a job worth having anyway. An interview isn’t just for them to evaluate you, it’s also for you to evaluate them....

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2026
1 points

I completely agree. Besides, the problem is that many stutterers are ashamed of it. We should make noise, protest. But whoever takes the microphone to speak... will stutter!! Hahaha, it gives me anxie...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2026
1 points

When I interview, the first time I stammer/stutter I will say I have stutter and move on. I treat like it's nothing, like wearing glasses or something. The interviewer is looking at you to see how yo...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2026
9 points

Disclosing before hand is the best thing for all involved: it takes the pressure off you and allows listeners to trigger their empathy and patience to fully listen to what you're saying, not how you'r...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 5, 2026
11 points

Oral exam

Oral exam Hello everybody, just wanted to tell you that i have a big oral exam in my law studies today and i plan to disclose my stutter beforehand so it’s easier for me.. it’s the first time i’ve don...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
1 points

First off: I think it is a natural male impulse to exploit weakness. However, it is not right. It is not morally acceptable. Behavior like that violates every social compact we have struggled to put t...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

i absolutely despise when this or something similar happens to me but you wont see me outwardly express for a few reasons : 1. to me it signals that you view my speech as something you don't want t...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

I have a stutter as well, I work in healthcare. Mine gets a lot worse when I’m in a stressful situation. I always lead job interviews with the fact that I have a stutter and it’s never been a problem....

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
2 points

The guy seems to target them in social situations so it might be hard to ignore. I don't think going to hr is a good solution either (ik you didn't mention it, I'm continuing with my general opinion)...

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