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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

Introducing myself is the hardest thing for me to do. If I know for certain that someone is coming over to introduce themselves, the thing that typically helps me is if I take control of the introduct...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

Does your stuttering get worse when you feel that you need to get your words out quickly? If you allow yourself permission to speak slower, do you stutter less or more?...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Loss of ControlAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

Same happens with me. Now I always reply, "Hi I'm <name>"... It's easier for me to say something before my name, than directly stating with my name....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

Go to the restaurant and order something I actually WANT, and not something random I am able to say without stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

That's such a shame, I loved preparing presentations... and practicing alone in my room only to be humiliated in class I understand the desire in you, the recognition, the feeling that you can see ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

I often consciously distract myself - or the person I'm talking to - with lots of gestures when speaking, for example. I feel more comfortable talking when I'm moving, like walking, rather than sittin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
3 points

I’d love to go into voice acting! It would be much simpler and realistic without my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
3 points

Start making a lot more short form videos on TikTok and stuff for my brand. One of the things I struggle with a lot is speaking to a camera and often. Stuttering adds so many takes to every idea and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
5 points

It is extremely difficult blocking on your own name. It happens to me constantly when I am in a professional setting. I try to divert and buy myself time with BS questions like “Have we ever met befor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
1 points

Change your name to something easier to say. That’s what I did or practice saying your name over and over again , with a script. Whatever works for you. Be kind to yourself kid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
4 points

I had this exact problem with my own name, I ended up changing my name in my early 20s. Was a bit strange at first but has definitely changed my life for the better. I picked the fake name that I'd al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
7 points

Need urgent advice for an interview

Need urgent advice for an interview I want to do a PhD and have been applying to different programs and positions since a while now. I got accepted into a reputed graduate school with 3-4 projects of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
11 points

I'm new here

I'm new here Hey, first of all, I think it's very nice that there are so many of us, we must never forget that there are so many people who stutter. My school days were a total nightmare for me, I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
1 points

I feel that, I avoid going to restaurants that don't have these self-ordering displays or I persuade my companion to order for me beforehand...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/stutteringMay 6, 2025
3 points

Nobody deserves this

Nobody deserves this Hello everyone! I thought I would introduce myself a little and talk about a recent experience I had with a car salesman. But first, I’ve had a speech disability (or stutter as it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
18 points

I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. It hurts no matter how many times it happens. Ultimately you want to get to the point where it’s not nagging at you afterwards about what happened and isn’t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
32 points

The moment I stutter, both female colleagues faces got fade after seeing me. I usually replace the words on which I stutter. But this trick doesn't work with my name. Still don't have any plan, how I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
1 points

yeah like why the hell would my parents chose a name that stars with a sound I heavily struggle with...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
3 points

Learning another language (Arabic) has helped me stutter less

Learning another language (Arabic) has helped me stutter less I (27m) am most fluent in English as that’s the language I use the most. I usually have a mild stutter when speaking English however have ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2025
2 points

Dam this kinda true, I always knew word switching was semi useful, but becoming goated at your language could make it a game changer...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution