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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

I wish people knew that a handful meant 5 because that kills me. Or a few means 3. And we’re the dummies… okay...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 23, 2025
12 points

First night on the job

First night on the job Hi everybody, This is my first time posting on this — I guess you’d call it a forum — so I thought it would be nice to share how my first night of waitressing went. It was bot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
17 points

Yep, I do this too. White lies to avoid blocks. I've never used my real name with a barista....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
1 points

It’s kinda mysterious. I get using a different name. If applicable… I carry a card with my name, phone number, and email address just to make day to day interactions easier. I stutter a ton when I hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
25 points

This is a classic avoidance technique. Sometimes kids get sent to a psychologist because they lie all the time for seemingly no reason, to later be directed towards a speech pathologist because the ps...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
9 points

Two it from me working a corporate job in IT the last 5+ years it's in your best interest to push forward and pursue your careers and dreams. It ain't easy but what's life without a challenge? You got...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

Well, I already tried. It's more of behaviour than a mouth mind motor issue. I don't stammer when I'm alone. It's the people facing problem. Something connected to people, talking, mindset problems. E...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
12 points

Yes. The lying seems easier. I understand what you are saying, I do it too. At times. The solution in a way would be to work on the anxiety that comes with speaking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 23, 2025
47 points

Lying because of my stutter

Lying because of my stutter So today I went to the physical therapist for the first time and I had to give some information at the front desk while other people were also in the room waiting. I stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

There is, but blinking or ducking your head and taking a big breath are not the same. The former are what’s called avoidance techniques and should be avoided as they lead to bad habits. The latter is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/stutteringMay 22, 2025
2 points

Nursing as a PWS

Nursing as a PWS Hi all, I’d love to know if anyone here is a nurse and their experience as a person who stutters? I have a prominent stutter that gets worse when I’m anxious, and I usually am always ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
1 points

The stutter like throwing the same punch over and over again and he makes it really obvious. The best way to go on about it either parry or slip and hit it back with a counter. In this case being awar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
2 points

I wish I could help, but in my experience, trying to memorize a script is what led me to stutter the most as i gave myself these impossible expectations. What I would’ve done differently, is just goin...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterMay 22, 2025
20 points

Does anyone just laugh after realizing how badly you stuttered after a conversation🥲

Does anyone just laugh after realizing how badly you stuttered after a conversation🥲 Just got done with an interview, and now realizing how stupid I sounded/looked😭 everytime I stuttered, it looked ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
7 points

We've all been there. It happens. I've truly mangled some customer service situations and the rep totally left the interaction thinking I was disabled person. You just have to get over it? Part of t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMay 22, 2025
12 points

I had a HARD stutter with a customer service rep and I’m embarrassed to oblivion omd

I had a HARD stutter with a customer service rep and I’m embarrassed to oblivion omd I’ve had a stutter ever since I was a kid. But yk what makes it suck? Is that so many times my voice will be fine r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
2 points

You shouldn't point it out, especially if it's mild and not really noticeable. When people started mentioning to me, I became obsessed with the idea of speaking correctly, which actually made my diffi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 21, 2025
8 points

I'm going to college in a year and I don't know how to make friends. Stutter makes it worse.

I'm going to college in a year and I don't know how to make friends. Stutter makes it worse. - So basically the friends I have now are the ones I met in primary school. - I've barely met any more peop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2025
3 points

It will be different because it's your child’s name and you will be filled with so much love when you say that name. Or you can always find phrases that you can use to introduce the baby that is easy...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMay 21, 2025
3 points

25M - stutters sometimes - any techniques to overcome unexpected stutters

25M - stutters sometimes - any techniques to overcome unexpected stutters Hey everyone, long-time lurker, first-time poster. I’m a 25-year-old guy who only stutters some days—most days my speech flows...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more