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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2016
2 points

I was called a broken record when I was growing because of how bad my stutter was. My best friend always had to be by my side, she was the only one that could understand me. I went to speech therapy ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2016
1 points

"Ignore her in public" as in you two were walking around in the mall holding hands or you ignored her calls/Skype in public? Does she know you stutter? I'm also in the same position and I hate answeri...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2016
3 points

I'm sorry to hear that's happened. Think a few of us can relate to your scenario: wanting to call someone but resorting to other means to spare the terrible feelings. A common topic for PWS to talk ab...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2016
7 points

Has anyone's stutter ever gotten in the way of a relationship?

Has anyone's stutter ever gotten in the way of a relationship? We were both young and were both are main priorities. She was pretty, funny, and as socially as awkward as I was. We would text each othe...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2016
1 points

It's only useful if you only sometimes get a block, saying these words all the time would be a little bit odd. Though, if one is clever with their usage, it could sound completely normal....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2016
2 points

I'm gonna join too. Just had my first reading out loud in front of the public experience at university, read an introductory essay about myself and on other subject too. It's needless to say that I bl...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
1 points

Just found a trick for myself to be fluent while answering the phone. Used to stuck on the hello part. Replaced it with just a "llo" and it did help a lot. Sounds like a faster hello. But, whatever wo...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
1 points

Same here. Never worked when it was mental. But saying hello continuously in public is kinda weird though lol. But, whatever helps man....

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
1 points

Not 100%. Sometimes I do stammer at it as well. I substitute it with yeah wherever I can. Works fine with me....

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
1 points

The thing is substitution. To not to stammer, we tend to substitute the word on which we stammer with the ones on which we don't. Actually I've been trying it from past 3 days and have been successf...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
3 points

My main go to was replacing the "h" with a "y" and although it's not the best thing to be doing, it worked well for me in the past. Instead of getting blocked in the vocal chords on that tough "hehh" ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
6 points

Let me know if this is still working after a couple of weeks. Not to be too harsh but this isn't so much a tip as much as a 'trick' and tricks don't tend to last. Once you get used to llo or the first...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
3 points

What I usually do is keep saying 'Hello' to my self before I pick up the phone. Then I quickly pick up the phone midway through a 'hello'...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
2 points

Good to hear you found a work around. And yeah, substitution does suck. In your mind you are thinking of making the most kickass remark you can, but it just won't come out. You end up saying a really ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2016
1 points

Having to substitute words sucks but definitely works! I'm glad you found a way to reduce your nervousness on the phone. A quick "Oh" before the hello works for me. It also sounds a bit weird but bein...

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2016
12 points

A small tip for saying that first word on a phone call

A small tip for saying that first word on a phone call Hey everyone! So I'm currently 21yo and I've been a stutter from as long as I can remember. Luckily I've never been made fun of by anyone, incl...

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2016
4 points

Today i took a big step, but for no reason.

Today i took a big step, but for no reason. I have been dreading talking about my stutter for years as i have been a covert stutterer for my entire life. Today i decided to go to the doctor, and hopef...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2016
2 points

Nobody told me anything. I learned to deal with my stutter in my own way, and one thing that did help me was to take a breath and slow down. It wasn't perfect but it did help, sometimes. Thanks for ...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2016
1 points

I use synonyms when possible or add words like the, a, and, at and I don't have as many blocks. Like "I'm on the youtube" "im going at the Walmart" lol sounds stupid but people know I just mix words a...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2016
3 points

My mom would finish my sentences and I'd get mad lol. I'm 19 now, still with a severe stutter but I've learned to deal with it. I talk and don't pay attention how I talk, I feel like that helps. I lit...

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