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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2016
2 points

When I first did this it was with my brother in the car, so it didn't matter that much how I looked. I'm at the point now that I can just pretty much do mouth it once and it works so it isn't much of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2016
2 points

I'm glad you found something that works for you. I have a question, it's easy to mouth 'peanut' to yourself, but how does this work when speaking to others? Slightly off topic- This might seem like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2016
2 points

That's great. If you can get past the anxiety and say what you intend to say, that is the most important thing. I went to a two week intensive (AIS in NYC) where they really stressed the importance of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
6 points

I absolutely agree, and I'm glad you asked that question, because it leads into an important issue amongst a lot of stutterers. I spent four (mostly) wonderful years with my crush from early middle s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
3 points

"Stop caring", as said by someone who doesn't know what stutter amounts to. Some day, more people will know about it. :) >stuttering by myself (such as **reading aloud** or talking to a pet or **m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeta
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential AssociationNot About Stuttering
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
1 points

Ok I get you. Yeah it's a struggle. I like your analogy too, how can you go for a nice drive when all those stop signs suddenly appear....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

I remember once I was drunk, I had to explain to a buddy what this stuttering thing was about. He didn't think I was a stutterer, and I hadn't really been stuttering that night, but when I started exp...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
1 points

It's exactly the answer for me. I don't have any other explanation for my situation. My step brother was a stutterer and I became one myself later on. I'm not sure if it's a coincidence. My side of t...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
8 points

I have had many people tell me this before, too many times to count. Another thing I've heard often is, "Take it easy, breath, slow down". I believe people say it because they feel a little uncomforta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

Follow up in person if you need to, interviews are important. A couple of times it helped me if I wrote things down if I had to talk on the phone. It didn't make me fluent but it helped a bit with an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
2 points

Just tell them you have a stutter towards the beginning of your interaction. "By the way, I have a stutter so if I start sounding kinda crazy or whatever & you need me to repeat myself, just ask...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
3 points

I would do a speech in front of 10000 people. Go out and socialise more and just talk all day....

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Public SpeakingNeurological & BrainAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
2 points

Yeah I know how you feel but you know what, I just do it anyway and it's good practice. I don't really care what the other person thinks, I only care about if they understand what I'm saying because I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
1 points

I can sometimes talk fast in short spurts if I'm having a good day. But I just can't follow! If I'm trying to learn something on YouTube and they talk fast I have to rewind it. I definitely think tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2016
1 points

As a software engineer, I don't have to talk very much at my job relative to other positions. Mainly my daily interactions are between other engineers a handful of people across various departments. ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2016
2 points

Sounds a lot like my stutter, I have a name with a harsh syllable at the start (ka sound) so it's annoying to get my own name out sometimes. It's definitely linked to anxiety, whether stuttering cause...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2016
8 points

Wow, our situations are so similar it almost feels like I wrote this. I also struggle on hard consonants like B, C and D. My name was supposed to be Christopher, but my mum decided on Sean at the las...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2016
4 points

It varies how stutterers react to things like that. Usually, just waiting for them to finish is probably the easiest way - adding to the communication might make them want to react to this new part, w...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2016
1 points

Thank you for such a detailed response! I think it's great that you've finally been able to find someone you can talk to. I think my next step is going to be trying to talk about it with my mom. Her ...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2016
5 points

It bothers me quiet a bit. I believe that I'm a naturally extroverted person (on my good days I talk to everyone that I can) but that my stutter holds me back. There are things that I want to say that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation