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postr/StutterMay 12, 2017
9 points

The "Word Swap" Stutter

The "Word Swap" Stutter First time posting here. Does anyone ever have that stutter where you can't say a certain word or syllable but if you can find a synonym for the word you can pronounce it fine...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
5 points

Automotive technician. My coworkers understand I have a stutter and give me the time to say what I need and cars and trucks don't talk. If I have to speak to customers the service advisors are always ...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
6 points

Financial/Billing analyst. On my second year here. I'm on the phone more than I'd like, but have gotten very good at resolving things via email when it's possible. It seems like the phone calls have r...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
13 points

Bartender. Easy when it is busy and i only have to yell prices out. Sucks when it is slow and people wanna chat. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2017
3 points

Tell the interviewer up front that you stutter sometimes. LIE and say "it's not a problem for me; it doesn't interfere with work, just sometimes it takes me a little longer to say things." This is...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 9, 2017
16 points

I just found this subreddit, thought I would introduce myself and tell my story, so to speak.

I just found this subreddit, thought I would introduce myself and tell my story, so to speak. I have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. From elementary school all the way through college a...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2017
1 points

No use getting angry/disheartened over their natural reaction to a joke, so what I do is try to find a way to laugh it off. Next time just be like "well I'm glad *y'all* think this is funny.... Anyway...

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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2017
1 points

Bravo, you've already identified the problem. It's just that- fear of failing. Between now and then I recommend trying to get comfortable hearing yourself stutter, and try to ignore the negative feeli...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
1 points

When explaining to someone who asks why I can't talk like them I just say I stumble over my words a lot and it takes a bit longer to get sounds and words out. Lots of people stutter or know of someone...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
8 points

I actually have the same issue. You can swap the work stutter for "speech impediment" "I just want you to know I suffer from a speech impediment"...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
3 points

That could work, but it's situational. It's not like I can say : "sorry, I have a holding back issue"...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
3 points

Holding back. Try replacing the word "stuttering" with "holding back". I "stutter" the worst when I talk to people older than me and during those moments I ask myself why am I "holding back" inste...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
1 points

My name is the worst. I don't think I've said it without being blocked for 10 years. I can't introduce myself, place pickup orders at restaurants, it's so frustrating...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2017
1 points

Dude. The part about stuttering back to her? Just... no. Instead, I would agree with her some kind of visual que as you're talking ("ok" sign, quick wave, etc). It's never fun when someone fake stutt...

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postr/StutterMay 5, 2017
21 points

Didn't know this subreddit existed... Guess this is a vent.

Didn't know this subreddit existed... Guess this is a vent. Seriously, how do you deal with depression? I never win arguments/debates, never contribute in conversations because I know I'll embarrass m...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2017
3 points

I guess two things: it seems like a common thing around here that people won't stutter when they're by themselves/with a dog. Personally I've never felt that, my stutter stays pretty constant regardle...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2017
1 points

Hi there, nice to meet a fellow Indonesian here. Didn't expect to meet one on this sub haha. Personally I prefer gojek over angkot, because with gojek at least I don't need to raise my voice. Having ...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2017
1 points

I like music so much man, it's my passion. I am playing guitar and attending dance classes and i feel good about it, I really don't have problem with people and when the shits goes down, i am really h...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2017
3 points

I completely agree with you in regards to what you said about the victim mentality that seems to be so predominant among people that stutter. I think, for a lot of people at least, that it's orders o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2017
1 points

In the past if a person who I applied for a job for called and I did not want to deal with the phone I would just let them leave a message and then I would just go into the business either the same da...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution