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postr/StutterAug 28, 2017
4 points

Scheduling an Appointment Over the Phone

Scheduling an Appointment Over the Phone Hey All, I had to use the phone this morning to schedule a doctors appointment and I figured I would share my experience. To provide some context, I recent...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2017
1 points

Yeah this is what I do, normally I talk about something else eg. Football and if my speech is flowing well, at the end of my sentence, I'll say my name loud and clearly (So I don't have to do it again...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2017
7 points

These moments used to stress me out in university, but I learned to keep calm and speak slower when it came to my turn. I blocked a couple times on my name, but by my senior year these situations didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2017
1 points

Apparently the secretary and the other admin assistant (who has nowhere near my work load or responsibilities) can't talk to each other. I don't know. The "office manager" just got the title, so I fee...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2017
3 points

I always waited until we set a date to meet up. If I'm comfortable enough to actually meet you in person I'm comfortable enough to tell you. I always phrase it as more of a heads up, like yeah first...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
3 points

Explain your situation. When I joined my work, I explained them my vocal behavior and asked them to ask me again if they didn't understand something I spoke. I may not be doing the best but with whate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
1 points

> I need to be a better communicator, etc. etc. Uh, that would piss me of and stress me out. You DID communicate. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
7 points

My best advice is to let them know you have a stutter. It can be embarrassing stuttering in front of a manager or a superior, but unfortunately at most jobs (especially corporate) you cannot get away ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
1 points

Yeah, honestly that's the way to go. I rarely have people say things, but if they do then I just think honesty is the best policy. After I tell them that I stutter that's always ended it. They're usua...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
2 points

I have started to do that recently. It makes them back off...kind of? They just kind of laugh to themselves afterwards, mostly. Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate them. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
3 points

I hadn't even thought about calling the article's author. That's a really good idea. I used to just sort of uncomfortably laugh, but after speaking with HR last time and not hearing anything back, I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
1 points

Just say you stutter, get it out there so you dont have to be scared about it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
1 points

Its so weird because when i go to tell someone i have a stutter, I DONT STUTTER WHEN I SAY THAT. Its so ironic lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
3 points

Have you ever told them that you stutter? Be upfront about it, if they make fun of you fuck them, we're only alive for a short time, don't be worried about ignorant dickheads making fun of something t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
2 points

I wish I would have the balls to do that and it doesn't exactly help that my stutter consists of mostly blocks that I avoid without even thinking about it. My avoidance is on another fucking level I s...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
2 points

I always make a joke before someone else can. Sometimes people don't realize you truly have a stutter and crack a joke. That's when the weird I really do have a stutter conversation happens. Normally,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2017
3 points

Do or you don't, that's fine. But when it actually comes time to meet be upfront about it when you're having a block. At that point it either won't matter or it probably wasn't going to go anywhere ei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
2 points

Usually I bring it up early in a conversation if I see the other person doesn't understand what's going on, or whatever. Sometimes I'll work it in as a joke, or sometimes I'll be more serious about it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 24, 2017
22 points

Being upfront about your stutter

Being upfront about your stutter So I just started university recently and my stutter is at its worst right now, mostly due to stress and anxiety and all that. But I've recently been trying out annou...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
2 points

I love your attitude! Wish I thought this way when I was in college. Like most people with a stutter, I struggle very much with my name when introducing myself to someone, or to a group. I remember ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more