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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
2 points

i pronounce it wrong. well, kinda. for me it’s words that have two constants together. so like words that start with sp-, st-, tr-. i basically just pronounce each letter at a time. so like “sport” ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
3 points

Ignorance

Ignorance I'm a mild stutterer and sometimes more during socialization. Whenever someone asks me about something, they tend to ignore the last part of my response (probably because they understood?) w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
1 points

Red words.. first I'm hearing this kind of terminology used. Normally I think these are called "problem sounds" because it's really phonetic sound that we block on rather than the whole word. Yea norm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
6 points

A little lost on finding a relationship

A little lost on finding a relationship Hello all i hope everyone is well. Been feeling down these few past months more than i normally feel and it’s due to stressing about my future, finding a career...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
6 points

Stutter getting worse

Stutter getting worse Hi, I’ve had a stutter all my life but sometimes, it feels like it’s gotten better to the point it’s barely noticeable. But nowadays (I believe it’s due to added stress and work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
12 points

Speak slow

Speak slow I have had a stutter for most of my life and it’s currently worse than ever, it’s affecting me really much and making me feel lonely and different, but I have really noticed that speaking s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
1 points

Many years ago, I compiled a list of my "red" words (very fluency problematic) and "yellow" words (somewhat fluency problematic). I list my red and yellow words below. FWIW, my little company has a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
7 points

I know this is looked down upon by some, but my go-to is word substitution (when possible). I'd rather have someone give me a goofy look for a strange word choice than a horrified look for blocking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
1 points

I would practice the word ‘cricket’ so I become an expert in pronouncing it. The same way as when practicing an instrument, first very very slowly, then a bit faster and finally try to pronounce it in...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
6 points

How do you folks deal with red words?

How do you folks deal with red words? not sure if red word is the right terminology, but for me it's basically those words which i absolutely stutter at ALL the time. normally i stutter less when talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
9 points

I need a solution to reduce or treat my stuttering because it’s starting to negatively affect my life.

I need a solution to reduce or treat my stuttering because it’s starting to negatively affect my life. I’ve pretty much tried everything I could. I went to a speech specialist and attended a conferenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsSeeking Therapy+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
2 points

Can you put on a slight accent/fake voice for phone calls? I don’t know if this works for all stutters, but for my stop stutter it does. Apparently this is why Marilyn Monroe spoke in her fake voice, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterJun 24, 2025
35 points

Worst prez of my life

Worst prez of my life I’m 40. Speak a lot for my career. Typically mild to moderate stutterer. I’m in a masters program and one class is mostly online. My midterm presentation was the worst damn spea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterJun 24, 2025
19 points

About to quit my job after day 2

About to quit my job after day 2 Hi everyone I’m 2 days into a job and have so far avoided phone calls but it’s a big part of the job and I know I can’t do them. I’m working for a solicitors in the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterJun 24, 2025
9 points

Found a way to stop stutter

Found a way to stop stutter i jus found that forcing the word out of my mouth when im about to stutter is helping me to be fluent however this technqiue is kinda weird i have to use shake my head to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJun 24, 2025
19 points

I’d be such a good actress if I didn’t stutter :(

I’d be such a good actress if I didn’t stutter :( I’m a teenager who does musicals at a community theatre. I’ve stuttered my whole life. it’s worsened in the past few years. VERY drastically. specific...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
14 points

Weird faces while stuttering

Weird faces while stuttering Whenever I stutter, I always make these really weird faces as I'm stuttering, which sucks because I have pretty long stutters and it's always embarrassing to make a weird ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
7 points

I always think,that I'm gonna stutter

I always think,that I'm gonna stutter I always think,that I'm gonna stutter.When I'm opening my mouth,or it doesn't matter opened or not,firstly I analize the letter of all words in sentence I wanna s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
51 points

Any other stutterers find it annoying when everyone tells you how to work your own disorder??

Any other stutterers find it annoying when everyone tells you how to work your own disorder?? It annoys me so much that they act like stammering experts 😭🙏. I get some of them genuinely try to be he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
12 points

Stutter getting worse for no reason

Stutter getting worse for no reason I’m a 19F in university My stutter usually gets worse when I’m nervous but even when I’m not and talking to friends and stuff it gets worse and it’s like the words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more