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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
8 points

I was in your shoes a few months ago. The "pause" is your friend. I spent 5 mins saying my name and it took me 3 hours to answer about six questions. My voice matters and I took as long as I want...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 21, 2026
1 points

Vent: I wish more careers/jobs didn’t require speaking

Vent: I wish more careers/jobs didn’t require speaking Title says it all. I wish more careers and jobs didn’t require speaking as much as they do. My stutter has been getting worse lately and getting ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2026
2 points

Every single day man the new friendships broader social circle charisma being able to contribute to discussions introduce myself normally maybe having a girlfriend being more confident in myself being...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationQuality of Life+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2026
2 points

I have same problem. When we read , talk and sing alone , we don't stutter because our mind is calm and there's no anxiety. The moment we speak to someone whether it's family, friends , Neighbors or w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2026
5 points

My life would be so much better. I would have had a more active social life, and it would have been easier for me to make friends during my teens and 20s. I was bullied a lot in high school for stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & BullyingQuality of Life+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2026
1 points

Considering I just gained a stutter after two and half decades of life, I can tell you life without is so much easier...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2026
2 points

Yep, just shows how it effects our everyday lives, a simple thing like going to the shops fills you with dread and anxiety, and some people still say it's not a disability!...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 19, 2026
6 points

I cant buy cigarettes.

I cant buy cigarettes. I generally like going to market but oh my god I cant buy them to save my life. Especially at my local market or ESPECIALLY Marlboros. It seems so impossible that most of the ti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2026
3 points

yeah, i didnt have to stutter while saying my name, People thinks i forgot my name lol so they say, hey, you forgot your name? this wouldnt have happened. life would be easy, i didnt had to be all...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2026
1 points

One of the coolest experiences happened to me when me was in high school working as a host at a fast casual restaurant. The job itself had its little hiccups yet it still was a job that could work for...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
10 points

My life would be 10x better if my stuttering was not a thing, so many fun things to do....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
1 points

Person A doesn't get hired because of their stutter. Person B: well i got hired so its how You handled it. Not only do we not all live in the same society/country but severity levels are also a thin...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2026
7 points

This. A thing as simple as walking in a gas station with 15$ and telling the cashier "Hey I need 15$ on pump 4, regular. Thanks, have a good one." Can cause great anxiety and as you said, fear. Es...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
3 points

Your stutter isn’t why everything in your life sucks and you aren’t social. You still have a voice even if it takes longer and more effort to speak. Time goes slower for you than it does other people ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 17, 2026
7 points

Some advice or thoughts please?

Some advice or thoughts please? So there are certain instances where I stutter a lot and others where it’s almost non existent Stutter most when: Speaking face to face Speaking on phone Stutter...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Situational VariabilityCycles & RandomnessQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
2 points

I think of it differently. Despite my struggles with stuttering since childhood, I still have faith in God, and because I do, everything I’ve ever dreamed of having/doing has manifested for me through...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
2 points

Oh yes i get you now, more thankful of time than everybody else since we have to have patience with ourselves also. Great trait to have these days. I would almost consider it a luxury.. i know people ...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Quality of LifeEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
5 points

People don’t give anyone any time, and I find that through having a stutter, I’m more cognizant of that. I saw someone huff and puff about having to wait behind someone in a wheelchair. People are ann...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJan 15, 2026
31 points

I’m fucking sick of it.

I’m fucking sick of it. I’ve always been confident, never had anxiety. I’m not ashamed of my speech. But I’m frustrated angry it makes me boil that I can’t speak my mind. I’m sick of people not unders...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 15, 2026
24 points

Attendance issues in college due to stuttering anxiety – anyone been through this?

Attendance issues in college due to stuttering anxiety – anyone been through this? I’m a medical student and I’ve been struggling with stuttering for years. Lately, it’s started affecting my college a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more