Your story sounds almost exactly similar to mine. But I have about 10 years on you so I've been through it all and feel I can offer some advice. 1. It really helps to be open about the fact you stutter. Be open to family and friends if they do not know about it. People will feel closer to you for sharing this struggle you are having. Ignoring the problem is no longer an option. 2. Try not to avoid any speaking situation or substitute words. When we do this it offers temporary relief but will reinforce the problem. You need to go on the offensive to rebuild your confidence. To do this you need to have courage and accept the fact you may stutter in front of people - but running away from a speaking situation or giving a fake name is not an option. Over time you will have less and less fear and will stutter less, or not stutter at all. With that said, would it really have been a huge deal if you stuttered on your name in front of this girl? No, not really. Next time you feel like you are going to stutter on your name, initiate the conversation yourself. "Hey I'm Austin, I'm new here, who are you?" or if she asks your name you can go, "Hello Sara, nice to meet you, I'm Austin." This can often times be easier than having to blurt out your name.