I always tell about my stuttering beforehand. The problem I find is that people dont know what it actualy means, at least not for me anyway. The main problem for me isnt that I get stuck on words, its all the consequenses it brings. Its difficult to be funny when you cant controll your timing, or the way you say things because you're just trying to get the words out. If i get stuck alot I sometimes just say a very compronised, simplified version of what I actually wanted to say because its too much of a hassle. I also have a tendency to look down/when I get stuck, and thats not very helpfull. Stuff like that. Its hard to explain these things before hand without coming across as like needy or like begging. Maybe I should suggest the first date at my place over a glass of wine and sleeping pills so everyone feel relaxed :P Second date whatever she wants to do.