didn't see that link before. are those people mentioned speech therapists (stuttering-wise)? i actually was unsure if OP was a stutterer, but i found out by asking, which sets a certain context. i don't get where you're going with that whole "starting fights/aggro" thing. do i seem _angry_ in the above to you? dunno why you think i'm "spreading anger" in here. might wanna keep an eye out for some of the other things i've written. you seem very focused on this one interaction.