That’s great, happy for you! I keep telling myself what you say but it feels hard to shake the insecurity off. Friends keep telling me it’s a flaw like any other and not a dealbreaker but I’m still trying to fully embrace it. It feels limiting not being able to always fully express yourself the way you want to and way harder to compete with guys who are natural smooth talkers (literally and figuratively) in addition to having other traits that I don’t have. But thanks for your comment, I appreciate the support