I wonder if #3 might have to do with acting… you’re role playing, ie, playing a character, or telling their story. You don’t think of stuttering, bc your character doesn’t stutter. Maybe try to incorporate some acting into your regular interactions. You’re playing a calm, cool guy who knows what to say, and how to say it. Have you seen 40yo virgin? Think the bookstore scene. I think about that guy sometimes, when I want to bring down the anxiety level and get some shit done/said.