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I believe stuttering is more of a psychological challenge than a developmental or physical one. Rewiring those old patterns and memories in the brain using NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) techniques can be effective - but it’s a time-consuming process that requires consistency and patience. If you can, look into John Harrison’s “Stuttering Hexagon” and his book - it offers a profound perspective on how stuttering is shaped by interconnected factors like emotions, beliefs, and physical responses. The most important thing is not to be desperate - don’t rush to get rid of your stutter. You need to show your brain that speaking is safe. Work with it, not against it. If you’ve experienced anticipatory anxiety - the fear that builds before speaking - you’ll know how it fuels speech blocks. That anxiety then creates more blocks, forming a vicious, self-reinforcing cycle. The goal is to break that cycle by staying patient and exploring what works best for you, because every individual’s experience is unique. Practices that often help include: • Meditation – to calm the nervous system • Breathing exercises – to regain control and rhythm • Personality development work – to build confidence and presence • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) – to embrace, not resist, the experience • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) – to reframe unhelpful thought patterns Again, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. The key is to find the combination that works with you. I’m 30 now, and I’ve only recently understood this. For years, I stayed within my comfort zone, which likely led to performance and social anxiety - both of which triggered my speech blocks. Otherwise, I’m completely fluent. Hope this gives some perspective!