When you realize people never have us to go through DAILY shame and dysfunction you realize there little laughs and smirks and opinions and suggestions mean NOTHING!!! Being fully yourself and allowing yourself to stutter in front of people is everything. I preface it with and “now I’ll show you why everyone in here is an excellent public speaker” or something along those lines. The hardest thing I’ve found is when people say you just gotta not be scared when they have no idea the courage it takes in the first place. People are blissfully unaware. And from now on that’s not your problem