commentr/StutterSeptember 29, 2015

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I'm sorry, but this is a really negative outlook. I have a really bad stutter and I still am extremely successful career wise, I get plenty of invites to parties throughout my lifetime. I've gotten laid a ton. You've got to take charge of your own happiness and success in life. Its up to you to not let a stutter get in the way. I feel like your playing the victim card here really bad. No one is going to swoop in and rescue you. You need to do it yourself. I decided 10 years ago that I wasn't going to let my stutter fuck up my life, and from that point forward, it hasn't. I need to make an important call? I make that call, stutter my ass off, but i get my point across. I don't bitch about it forever. I move on. I want to talk to a hot girl? I stutter my ass off and most of the time they find it cute. Most people i know today don't give two fucks that I have a stutter and it doesn't change their opinion of me. My grandfather had a serious stutter. Most people thought he was much much dumber than he really was. He took advantage of their misperceptions during business opportunities and died a very rich man. Use your stutter to your advantage. If your having trouble in interpersonal relationships, don't blame your stutter. Improve yourself other ways. Start reading books; "The Charisma Myth" or "Getting More - Stuart Diamond" are great books i'd recommend. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me. I don't mean to be hard, but damn you need to start taking charge of your own life. Need a better outlook on life? Be happy you (hopefully) don't have a severe illness. Look up xeroderma pigmentosum or cystic fibrosis and then tell me you think a stutter is bad...

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Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships

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Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others