This is crass but I have a tight group of friends who would never do that but there's 1 younger guy, a friend's boyfriend, about 20, who we got into it over money and he started getting on me about stuttering and in front of every one I said "What do you make fun of retarded people too? Blind people? You hate blacks or Mexicans?" And just went off like that for a minute before he had to apologize and looked like a hoe. I'm way too old to put up with that shit.