well it sounds like you clearly have a negative connotation to hear stuttered speech. I dont really enjoy listening to someone stutter, but moreso when they struggle hand. easy stuttering doesnt bother me much. I think it only makes you a hypocrite if you think it's wrong to feel this and you complain if other people feel the same way when you stutter. like i said i sometimes dont like it either but the more i change my focus to the person and what they saying, the less i care about how they're saying it. Also by taking a moment and consciously empathizing with them helps with this a lot. We are usually the most aware people of how we sound and it's hard enough on ourselves without feeling like we're making it hard on the listener. thinking about this cuts through the annoyance and makes it easier to focus on them and not their speech.