well, i'm just _one_ voice. don't feel like you have to take the criticism, just because it's there. might just be the way _i_ look at things. like, [i was writing something for another OP over here](http://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/2gq8l0/stuttering_and_conversation/cklnnmd). you're not the only one to speak of confidence, but i might be the only one whom it nags!