Please don’t make a tragedy out of it. I was 10 times more stressed when I saw my parents scared, and feeling all kinds of uncomfortable because of my speech. Instead, spend time with her, and try to direct her attention on something she likes to do. I think a creative activity, where she can dance, paint, act, etc..can have a big impact. Basically take her out from the frame of mind, where she relates to people as a stutterer. The more she can focus on the actual activity, and be “in the flow” - the better. If group settings feel too overwhelming, start small—just one adult she’s comfortable with—and build up to a small group when she feels ready. As for speech therapy, I would recommend a therapist who creates a safe space. I had mixed experiences as a kid—some therapists just don’t know how to connect with children. But I remember one woman who had me do various exercises in a shape of a game, like we’d recite poems in silly voices or play fun speech exercises..she was awesome and I had fun, and sure enough it actually helped my speech. So, the more she finds herself in spaces and with people where she feels safe and not judged for her speech - the better. Good luck, you are awesome for reaching out here!