Uh. I've dated many women. I've had relationships. I stutter, sometimes very badly. The two aren't related, really. The chicks who would turn you down for a stutter aren't worth your time. What do you mean it "deconstructs" everything? If I'm talking to somebody new and I start to stutter, I just grin a little, shrug, say "Sorry, speech impediment" and they usually nod and say "its fine" and I keep talking to them. I'm a firm believer that it's as bad as you make it. That said, of course, there are different levels of stuttering. People who are physically incapable of getting a sentence out have a much harder time, i'm sure, but I still don't think it's a huge deal. Here's a thought: If you think you have it bad occasionally being unable to talk the way you want to talk, how do you think deaf or mute people handle it? They get around it. They deal, and they have coping strategies. You can too, brother. Shit, learn sign language and go hit on a deaf chick. She won't know you stutter ever.