I'm 34 and have been married for about 7 years. I will admit that it was very difficult for me to initially approach females and would absolutely dread making that first call after I got her number (I would often dial 6 numbers then hang-up). But I did it and you gotta do it too and not hold yourself back. Just have confidence. It goes a long way. What kind of mediums/forums are you using to meet women?