We’ve always had a pretty good relationship, I was around for when he was a kid and when we see each other (usually for a few weeks or a month at a time) we end up having some pretty good conversations, just not overly personal things. Which makes sense because I’m his sister, not his mom, but our younger sister is going through a lot in their household so I’ve been talking to her more lately trying to help her out. I just wondered if I should check in on him, I would never pressure him back into speech therapy, it’s just that I don’t think the authority figures in their household let them make any medical/personal decisions or even raise concerns about how their issues are being treated. I just want him to have a voice, but I’ll only bring it up if I think he wants to talk.