How to accept stutter? I'm 24 years old from Germany have been stuttering since I was 4 year sold. To accept it that I won't be so nervous in every speaking situation. My self esteem is low I would say because of my stutter I'm very scared of human interactions,... Best top to accept it and be more calmer. I'm also so nervous when I talk with someone, soci stutter even more. To accept stutter would be a good point to start from.