"You were so nervous you even stuttered! You have little self confidence and that's definitely unattractive. " Truth is I was not nervous at all. I stutter when I'm excited. I was excited we had many common interests... I never stutter when nervous. Like most people I'm nervous when I have to speak in public, but I never stutter there. In fact, I deliver fluent presentations, conferences and lead workshops in fronts of tons of people at least twice a year. Never stutter there, but I'm always nervous.