Let me enlighten you a bit. My dad stutters and I picked up my stutter from him. We don't get a long too well and whenever I'm feeling down about life it hits me. Every single thing I don't like about myself can be directly traced back to him. If I had any other father I wouldn't have to deal with these issues. But when I calm down it hits me, he's in the same situation as me. He's had to deal with the same issues and has had to get over the same obstacles. I'm sure if he had the choice he'd give me everything I ever wanted but it isn't up to him.