It’s okay and understandable to feel self-pity and sadness especially when you’re dealing with something that could interfere with your way of life. Therefore, I can’t blame those that don’t even make it. Absolutely sucks. But fellas, if you allow this to control you, it will destroy you. Treat yourselves well, mostly importantly find people that care about you. Way better to endure this bs with others than endure it alone. 🫂