First I think no matter what happens, we have to put ourselves first. I was there,I used to value myself based on how anyone would treat me. Second is I always say " Why God is not allowing me to speak" I feel there has to be something that I have to work upon myself and change. Stutter is not in our control, and we haven't done anything wrong to feel bad without any reason When someone tells me why you are speaking like this, I smile and say I have a speech issue, that's it. Just put yourself first, change your perception to view life Things that has helped me tremendously is Meditation and relaxing myself while speaking