i've had so many girlfriends in high school, and i've had a handful of long-term relationships over the course of my life (not to toot my own horn). they've always said it was "cute", and i never thought it was. but either way, they liked it! now that i can accept my stutter, disclose my stutter ("Hi, i'm Jer, and I have a stutter), and even have my friends and co-workers *laugh* at my stutter, it's not a big deal anymore. like many people said on these posts, your stutter is a tiny part of you, it does not define who you are. you most likely experience the stutter for so much longer than it actually lasts. going to support groups, seeing younger speech therapists, and talking about your stutter with friends and family helps a lot, too. good luck with finding her, i know she's out there!