Something I want to change in it. Don't control the words, focus on idea of what you want to say, words will come naturally. I agree with talk and don't care. Try to keep your mind on ideas rather than on words or worries because thinking of words can trigger stutter. Accept the reactions of others and desensitization should be your goal. If you are non smoker, don't start smoking, you will have two issues in your life. It is simple, he finds his way of handling stuttering, you can find yours, use your brain and don't believe anything you read, even my comment.