i feel like the wheelchair example is not good since the suicidal ideation and substance abuse of people in a wheelchair is much much lower compared to stuttering adults. Not saying one is better than the other just saying the facts. More people that stutter want to die than people in a wheelchair. I Have a severe stutter. I get a choking sensation and sometimes it takes more than a minute to say the first word in a sentence. My mom has a moderate stutter. She can most of the time even hide it, even on a phone. I know she never thought my stutter would be so bad even in the worst case scenario . But here I am. Trust me she regrets it very much. She was even crying about it and said sorry. I Think she made a huge mistake. I feel like there is some fates that are worse than non existence. I cant kill myself since other people and pets kind of depend on me. My mother is getting old and my dad is dead so I have to be here to help her in the house. If that makes me selfish I will be selfish then. Do you think what mothers are doing in Iceland with the down syndrome situation selfish?