I know how you feel too - and I feel deprived, like WAH I DEAL WITH SO MUCH SHIT ON A DAILY BASIS JUST TO BE FUNCTIONAL AND YOU JUST SAID IT WAS NOT A BIG DEAL?! But honestly you never know what people are dealing with. Maybe the person you're talking to is dead depressed or super socially awkward and is doing their best to be a Regular Functional Human Being and here you are, being annoyed by their attempt at friendliness. Now I take comments like this as a compliment and move on. Hasn't really made me that much more socially aware, I don't think, but at least I don't get upset at someone's friendly overture anymore.