Tell your wife that life is not just walking on roses. And problems and struggles are a part of life. So the future child doesn't deserve to live this life if he/she stutters? That's what your wife is implying to me. I bet the child will have a better upbringing than most of us on this sub. Because that child has a mother that shares the same obstacle as the child. The child will not feel as much as a loner and feel misunderstood. IF the child even will stutter. Whaf if the child doesn't stutter? It's a shame worrying about something like that and not getting a baby because of that reason.