postr/StutterSeptember 23, 2025

Thoughts about kids

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Thoughts about kids I am 28M from India. I am fit and considered fairly attractive in my part of the country. Sometimes girls i talk to ask me about my marriage plans. So lately i have been thinking about whether to have kids or adopt. I always felt like it’s much better to adopt a kid than to pass on my stutter to my own kid. I am sure most of the people in this community would have thought about this at one point or the other. So how have you people dealt with it? I always wonder if i should fall in love with a girl and then discuss with her, then proceed with the mutually agreed decision about the kids or i should find a girl who also thinks the same way that i do and date and marry her

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Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships

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Genetic & Family FactorsDating & Romance