How do NORMAL people feel when speaking? How effortlessly do they do it?
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How do NORMAL people feel when speaking? How effortlessly do they do it? Hey guys! been a while. So a few moments ago, i was watching a youtube video about someone stuttering and the other people reacting to it and i thought "There's many videos about stutterers experience as stutterer and them describing how they feel, i wonder how does normal people feel when talking?" I've thought about it and maybe we could get some idea on how to lessen our stutter or how should we go or what approach should we take before talking? Is there anyone here who can speak normally/fluently? I'll describe as clearly as i can as to how i stutter/how i usually talk: So, whenever i try to speak a word, first word in a sentence, i BLOCK (obviously) but sometimes i repeat the first syllable for tons of times as well as excessively blinking before getting through it. SO yeah after that, that's first phase CLEAR. YAY! i guess? then comes the next part. Next part is "Maintaning the momentum." Now this comes the hard part for me (for the most too, maybe) that's because for me, after getting through the first word, i could speak the second, third maybe the next one but then there's this slowly building up feeling coming up from my throat and then i'm suddenly almost out of BREATH. Which then turns into a BLOCK again. And in the middle of that BLOCK, there's this brain of me who does this "THINK THINK THINK" process that it searches for any similar words as to what will i say next and that's easier for me to speak or should i just push through it, in a milimilimilisecond! HAHA (I'm kinda amazed as to how our brain does this and can't even get a word out of the mouth just because of some genetical problems, TRULY) Then go back from the first phase to the last then repeat, repeat, repeat till i finish the sentence. So how do you guys do it effortlessly and how does it feel? maybe i could some idea y'know. I'm trying to get out of the "hiding the stutter" thing and approaching the "embrace and letting them know" way.