This is such a kind and thoughtful post, your friend is really lucky to have someone who cares this deeply. I’m a speech therapist, and honestly, the way you’re thinking about this already shows the right instinct: empathy over correction. The best thing you can do is treat him the same way you always have, without rushing in to “fix” moments of stuttering. When he stutters, stay calm, patient, and keep natural eye contact. You don’t need to look away; that can sometimes feel like pity, but you also don’t need to stare. Just hold space, let him finish, and show that you’re listening to what he’s saying, not how he’s saying it. Try not to finish his words unless he explicitly asks you to. Even if it takes longer, giving him that space helps build confidence and shows you’re comfortable with the pace. The gentle pat or reminder might come from a good place, but it can unintentionally make him more self-conscious, so instead, try a steady, calm presence without cues. When you’re out, let him take the lead when he can, but if he looks to you for help, step in naturally. Over time, those moments will get fewer as his confidence builds. What helps most is knowing he’s with someone who’s not waiting for him to “speak perfectly,” just someone who listens, laughs, and connects like always. At *Wellness Hub*, I’ve worked with many adults who stutter, and they often say what made the biggest difference wasn’t therapy techniques, it was having someone who didn’t flinch, rush, or avoid the pauses. That quiet acceptance does more for confidence than any correction ever could.