I'd like to say that if a man with a stutter still has the hope and willpower to remain confident in his adulthood, they are more likely to be more of a resilient and confident man than those who do not stutter. It takes some balls to stutter and still put yourself out there. I still question my sanity when I purposely continue or initiate conversations, but it's all to prove to everyone else on this subreddit and myself that we all have a voice. You're right though we're not normal, we're different, but in a good way.