postr/StutterMarch 18, 2026

"Other people have unknown problems as well" OK... but how is saying that gonna help me in anyway?

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"Other people have unknown problems as well" OK... but how is saying that gonna help me in anyway? People often tell me that everyone is suffering from something that they can't change, problems that they don't talk about, struggles they can't share with anyone. I agree and I IDOLISE those who suffer yet push forward. But how can you help someone by saying "Oh you're in pain? We'll he's in pain too. He ain't crying like you....." All my life people have said the same thing. With good intentions ofcourse but pls let's be real..... Comparison isn't gonna help in anyway. Besides I despise those people who use others pain as a way to motivate themselves and others. Like F**k you dude Imma do this on my own !!! I'm sorry if you're going through this fellow human. We do not deserve this and better times will come. Plz don't give up until then

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Community & SupportEmotional Experience

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Validation & EmpathyFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation