You're probably never going to have any luck with getting laid at a club. It's a very superficial environment - if you start stuttering the girl will probably lose interest immediately. You might be able to dance with girls though, just go up to them and start grinding, doesn't require a lot of talking. Transitioning from grinding to sex does however. I find that online dating is by far our best bet. You can get yourself a date without having to say a word. Once you're actually on the date, you're obviously going to stutter but it's easier to charm her because you don't have to compete with a million other guys talking over you. Not to mention, since she's already on the date, she'll probably be a lot more lenient with your stutter and more willing to give you a chance. I don't particularly have trouble getting girls anymore, but what I do have a *lot* of trouble with is actually *being* around them. As men, we're expected to be able to protect our mate, stand up for them if need be. But I know that I can't. If I'm ever in a situation where I'm with a girl and I need to speak up - for instance, someone starts catcalling her on the street - I *can't.* I'd just end up embarrassing myself. Even simple things like if the waiter brings the wrong order, or is being rude to us, I can't fix things. I'm helpless. If I try, I'd start furiously stuttering. I'd just be laughed at, and I would humiliate not only myself but also the girl I'm with. I'm sure someone is going to reply to this comment with something idiotic like "wHy cAn'T tHe gIrL sTaNd uP fOr hErSeLf?!?!". I'm sure she can, but it's my gender role as a man to be the protector. I need to know I *can* protect myself and her. Because of this, I'm extremely anxious whenever I'm on a date, not because of the girl, but because of fear of the situation I described above. And it's not an irrational fear. I was once on a beach date with a girl and after a few hours we started heading back. Some drunk idiot says something rude to her, and she even points it out. I couldn't do much, it was humiliating. Never saw her again. A severe stutter completely emasculates you. I'm almost 23, and while I've had a fair number of sexual partners, I've never had a real relationship. I don't know how I can if I'm not able to be a man. I've decided that I can't live like this anymore, nor am I willing to. I saved up around $30000 and am going to spend the next 8 months backpacking all around the world, in a lot of places that can be fairly sketchy. I'm hoping that constantly being in situations where I need to figure my shit out or I'll die will force me to learn how to stand up and protect myself despite my stutter. I'm hoping I'll come back as a real man who can protect his girl despite having a stutter. Or I'll die, in which case Darwinism would just be doing it's job. One or the other, no more of this bullshit though. Out of curiosity, I noticed you're the same age as me - have you ever had a long term relationship?