So I just need to "get over" the fact that stuttering is a battle I cant win?

So I just need to "get over" the fact that stuttering is a battle I cant win? You see, people are telling me that I need to stop thinking of it in a negative light but I simply cant guys. It's like walking into a party with no clothes on and, Expecting people or others to just accept it sense people dress weird at partys anyways. Or maybe highschool isnt where I'm meant to find freinds.