>It's not your fault you have a stutter. You need to tell her that. Write her a letter if you have to, express your feelings, but in as a calm and compassionate manner as possible. You need to tell her that it's not always possible to just *stop stuttering*. I always try to make her understand that but I dunno, she just doesn't want to accept the truth, I'll try to write a letter for her and hope she'll understand that though. >From personal experience, constant judgement and monitoring of my stuttering only made it worse. Please make sure this doesn't happen to you. You deserve more than that. STUTTERING IS OKAY. Yeah I know that, I used to do it when I was young but later I realized that stuttering is completely ok and not REALLY horrible like all the retards that know about my stutter think, sometimes people treat me like an idiot because of it and my siblings actually think that I'm retarded cause I can't speak normally. I mean, come on, you lower your voice when you talk about me when I'm next to you and you say my name multiple times how the fuck did you think that I won't hear you if you did that? Anyway, that doesn't makes me sad any more, they know absolutely nothing about stuttering and I always ignore or stop talking to people like that cause I don't have time for their bullshit, it makes me sad that there's alot of stupid people like that. >Make sure she understands that it will take time, and that if she keeps bringing up fluency around you, it's most likely going to get worse, and make you feel worse. Because of constant judgement. Tell her that having a stutter is okay, nobody is 100% fluent. Having this relationship with her, and your stutter, will only bring a positive environment in order to work on your stutter. I try to do that, but still she just don't understand, when I went to that therapist I'm talking about in the 4th of April (I went to 6 therapists before, all they did was waste my time and make my stutter even worse, I wish could get those 8 years I wasted with them back) she yelled at me cause I stuttered when we went back home....*seriously mom.....I've only went there 1 time, stuttering doesn't go away that fast* >At the end of the day, she only wants the best for you in your life. yeah but sometimes you need to think about what you're doing, My mom listened to doctors without thinking, and it only made things worse. she doesn't speak English but my brother can translate it and read it for her. Good luck to you man and to everyone , we'll all need it :)