commentr/StutterMay 25, 2014

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Well i think many girls that are looking for a stable relationship would consider a guy with light stutter. I say this because they know stuttering is big problem and you need to be emotionally stable person to survive all the years of bullying and gathering the courage to speak in certain situations. I am buffed, tall, manly beard and fairly good looking dude. At first i may seem a little scary or strange to them because i don't talk much and i have been told that some girl likes me because i am some kind of mystery to be solved. And when they get to know me and see under my shell that i am sweet caring person, they gonna stick around. Yea you may have guessed, i get friend zoned often, but personalty i look at the bright side and think that every girl friend that i have my market value is increased. Just make sure when you meet her and her friends that you advertise your stutter, as soon as possible, maybe after 3-4 stutters. And to all girlfriends, please don't try to defend us when someone is making fun of us. We have been our whole life in this mess and we know how to handle the situation.

Themes

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy

Subthemes

Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries