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First off I have to say good job, you sound like a great parent👏 I second the other comment about spending quality/focused time with your daughter every day. Most off the stuttering programs for kids recommend around 15 minutes every day where she decides what to do/play with and you just follow her initiative. Create an environment with low communication pressure (talk a bit slower maybe, take a little pause before responding to what she says, don't interrupt, comment on what she says/does instead of asking questions). It's hard to put everything in a comment like this. But can I ask how your experience has been with speech therapists? As most stutterers will tell you, the majority of speech therapists know very little about stuttering, and can do very little to help, maybe even harm, if the focus becomes "fixing" the stuttering, which in most cases is not possible. Some grow out of it, with or without speech therapy. Speech therapy is really for those that continue to stutter. Finding someone who specializes in stuttering is important but not always easy to find. I have a son which is 5, he has been stuttering for 2.5 years. The first year I spent the evenings reading all the research I could find, I desperately wanted to help him and wanted to find the program with highest "success rates" etc. I eventually realised the goal of therapy can't be to remove stuttering, because it's just not an option, but for him to be happy and say what he wants to say without anxiety or shame. Stress, anxiety and shame increases stuttering, it can be a vicious cycle. My son is now in a program called mini-kids, it's basically desensitization, voluntarily stuttering and playing with words that get stuck (blocks), repetitions and prolongations. Me and my wife (who does not stutter) also add voluntary stuttering when we talk around him, at home and elsewhere, all to show him it's ok. I have stuttered since I was 3 as well, and have been thinking lately what a massive difference something like this would have made for me as a kid/youth. I had/have loving parents, but they don't stutter themself and I felt they could never understand, and that less stuttering = good, more stuttering = bad. This was also the focus of my speech therapy, it's something that must be worked on to fix. With that mindset stuttering can really take control of a life. So even though reducing my sons stuttering is not the stated goal of the therapy program, it's often something that happens because he becomes less tense, scared, fixated on stuttering etc.. I wish you and your family all the best