I'm sorry to hear that you have had negative experiences with people who don't show you respect when you stutter. It's unfair and hurtful to be treated differently or condescended to because of a speech difference, and I can imagine how frustrating and isolating that must feel. It's important to remember that stuttering is a speech difference that does not define your worth as a person or your capabilities. It's unfortunate that some people may not understand this and may react insensitively to your stuttering. However, there are many people who are understanding and accepting of differences, and it's important to surround yourself with those people. It's also important to advocate for yourself and educate others about stuttering. You can let people know how you prefer to be treated and what they can do to support you. You can also share information about stuttering and help raise awareness and understanding. There are also many resources available for people who stutter, including support groups, speech therapy, and online communities (www.stutterfreely.com). Connecting with others who share your experiences can be incredibly helpful in building confidence and finding support. Remember that you are not alone, and there are people who understand and support you. Don't let other people's ignorance or insensitivity bring you down, and keep working towards building a life that is fulfilling and meaningful to you. Cheers to personal growth! <3