Depends if you want to be a parent. You cannot isolate yourself from your own children. You can however stop fighting your own opinion and start using A.I. To convert your dormant agression into polite assertiveness. This combined with you developing a patienceful approach of demanding what you want (truthfully helping another through steps defined by them as comfortable that approaches a bigger goal.) if you do this you will not recognize the person you will become, people can find stability in you and your children are able to be guided in word and deed!