since there is no cure, real cure is change of society which is a looooong game. we need people fighting against discrimination and bullying. sometimes lawsuits gonna be involved, which is why I say we need legal ammunition not a ride, because lawyers can/should be your ammunition. and sometimes public naming of bullies, which is, yes, cancel culture the good parts is also ammunition. aside from that, all we individuals can do is try to survive, ask accommodations, pick our battles.