Lack of detail.. Yes it was. .this topic is exhausting to me, and hard to talk about even now at 42. It hurt me. However, I got over it. Verbally not mentally. My advice is so simplistic, but it is 'F|π÷ them,' if they (people,) don't relax around you they are jerks. Once I just said ' I don't give a damn anymore,' it gets easier