I'm not saying you can't come here to vent if you have a bad day, I just wanted to say how it is was objectively better to work towards the positive mindset and that there is no point being upset at those suggesting useful things to get out of a bad headspace. Your framing this as me trying to exclude the doom and gloomers but that's not what I was saying at all, just that they need help and those of us with a positive mindset have a duty to show them the light at the end of the tunnel.